Since meditation has many forms – from single-pointed-focus to visualisation to mantra – it follows, there are also many ways to meditate. I think this definition of “doing nothing” is held by people who have never tried – and use it as an excuse never to give it a go. My Meditation: Absolute Beginners Class takes people through many activities related to meditation and mindfulness. In fact, on the What Is Meditation course, I define meditation as:
A family of intentional activities that produce psychological changes.
I also go into what all that means, to give you a full understanding, but notice the definition states it is several intentional activities. You must actively participate in your meditation – or you could very well be “doing nothing“.
Relaxation is typically a part of most meditations. It is OK to stop there – you have meditated. However, the relaxation part is usually the beginning of meditation practice. When teaching, I give the students a simple relaxation meditation on the very first day. It gets people quickly and easily into meditation while giving them the first skill to practise.
Having said the FIRST practice is to relax, there are many practices within meditation to explore. You do NOT need to learn them all. If relaxation suits your needs right now, this may be as much as you need. I’d advise adding single-pointed-focus so you can gain deeper relaxation – stay tuned to find out why.
The quickest way to get beyond the myths is to join my easy but comprehensive courses. For instance, there is a course which takes you through the 3 DNA markers of meditation to further your understanding. If you already meditate, feel free to share it.
The next post is on another myth of meditation – gosh, there are so many.
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There are many types of mediation, just as there are many reasons to meditate. Let me explain.
Have you heard of any of these?
Mindfulness meditation – of which there are many variants, and my NEW book (out soon) will give you the best one.
Concentration meditation – is single-pointed-focus, and there are numerous things you can put your focus on.
Meditating on the breath – can emphasise either mindful awareness or single-pointed-focus using the breath as your focal point.
Visualisation meditation – uses your imagination to impact your body, mind and emotions. Visualisations abound on Youtube – some good, some OK, and some not.
Movement meditation – utilises mindful awareness and focused attention – e.g., one can practise Yoga and Tai Chi in this way.
I cover the above within my upcoming book (and courses), but there are others:
Mantra – uses sound and rhythm (or focusing on the vibrations in the body) to get you into single-pointed-focus.
TM (Transcendental Meditation) utilises a mantra.
There are lots of systems which use the essential components of meditation in various ways to help people make changes – some of them become almost a religion for their devotees.
Well, with all these TYPES of meditation practice, it cannot possibly be one thing. I know most teachers say, “This is how you meditate” then show you their favourite way of engaging with meditation. I do the same, just with a footnote about other types – but it is evident there are many ways to meditate. Not to be confused with “Any way you think you could be meditating – is meditation“. NO! I explain exactly what meditation is in my FREE course – where you discover the 3 DNA components of all meditation, without which it is NOT meditation.
The course below will further your understanding. If you already meditate, feel free to share it.
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Today’s course is about “The Three DNA Components Of ALL Meditation“, where I give you the inside scoop on the details many meditators do not know – yet if they did, this knowledge would help them gain more from their meditation practice. If you haven’t yet started meditating, this will put you ahead of the game, quickly and easily.
Today, I’ll give you the first, of half-dozen fundamental myths many people believe, especially those who say they cannot meditate. When I recently did a workshop on this, I promised participants I’d give them a tenner if they could honestly say they cannot meditate by the end of the 45 minutes. I didn’t have to pay because once ALL the myths are busted, and under proper guidance, everyone can meditate.
Meditation Is To Stop Or Empty The Mind
Many people think the purpose of meditation is to either empty the mind or stop one’s incessant thinking. Both of these are incorrect.
OK, if emptying the mind or controlling one’s thoughts is NOT the purpose of meditation, what is?
There are many things you can use meditation to help with, so to say its ONE thing is incorrect. To take control of the mind, or stop it completely at will, takes at least six months in silent retreat. Therefore, this is NOT a viable purpose at the beginning of your journey. You CAN gain calmness, peace and feelings of contentedness fairly quickly although possibly not within the first few times you practise. It depends on where you’re at when you begin.
I hope you enjoyed finding out about this myth. I have a slideshow which takes you through the 3 DNA components of meditation to further your understanding. Find it in the FREE course (link below). If you already meditate, feel free to share it. The next post is on another myth of meditation.
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Hi, this is a quick welcome to my new blog. It will grow quickly as I had a blog on meditation and mindfulness where I shared almost 100 articles. The website crashed, so now I’m starting from scratch – with new articles and insights to share.
Why am I writing about meditation, mindfulness and self-help tools?
I’ve been interested in personal development since a teenager, when I joined the Royal Marine Commandos to boost my confidence. Since then I have been on masses of courses and trainings and eventually became a teacher and coach, specialising in personal growth. You could say it is my obsession, but I see a lot of people get stuck along the way. I want to help those people — interested in personal or spiritual development — to get more from life.
That’s why I wrote that little book about getting more from reading about personal growth. I know it can get to the stage where we wonder if it is just all a con! We cannot get our head around the conflicting advice and know the fb memes do not work! Yet, with a little guidance to tweak your discernment you can re-engage with your journey and gain greater insights from self-help material.
But why meditation and mindfulness specifically?
Of all the tools I’ve used (too many to list!), for long-term results there is nothing that surpasses meditation and mindfulness. However, although most people think they know what these are, there are many myths and a lot of teachers with limited, partial knowledge and experience. Some of this can trip us up, or stop us from starting. This blog, and my books, are shared with you so you can get the most from your practice.
If you are at the beginning of your journey, you couldn’t be any luckier. You can join my email list, course, or have me as your coach to skyrocket your new practices.
If you have been around the meditation scene for a while, you may want to try out a Masterclass for an immediate boost.
Those last couple of phrases sound boastful, yet if you were to ask anyone who knows me, they would tell you I am more like a monk than a motivation speaker. The reason I can be so confident about my ability to help is because I’ve been studying and practicing for over 30 years! Recently, I accepted an invite to join a research project at Newcastle University where I was attached to a computer via a ton of electrodes. One of the questions I was asked before we started was “How many days have you been in retreat?” It took a while to calculate so we said “OVER 400 days“, putting me at the top of their list but actually it is almost double that number (it may have been easier to ask how many years?).
Well, that’s enough blah blah about me. I look forward to giving you guidance and food for thought. If you are a member (on my email list) then you can reply to any email and contact me directly. I’d love to hear how you get on with anything I suggest — the good, bad or ugly — so I can give you better, personal guidance.
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